Good morning, happy Monday, and happy Father’s Day!
“Dad: a son’s first hero, a daughter’s first love.”
– Unknown
In the spirit of Father’s Day, I want to give a heartfelt shout-out to all the dads out there. As a father of four, I know firsthand the weight of responsibility, the sacrifices, and the incredible joy that comes with fatherhood. It’s not for the faint of heart!
Here’s a little secret I’d never tell my kids (don’t spill the beans 😉): I often have no idea what I’m doing as a parent.
How do you raise another human? There’s no manual, and what works for one child might not for another. One moment, I’m convinced my kid is destined for greatness; five minutes later, I’m just hoping they survive the week!
So, what’s a dad to do?
Honestly, I don’t have all the answers – there’s far more I don’t know than I do. But I believe two things are non-negotiable: I’m called to love my children and to lead them.
I take comfort in the belief that God doesn’t make mistakes. My four children – Agnus, Sophia, David, and Paul, ages 11 to 25 – were uniquely designed, and I was chosen to be their father. Two boys, two girls; two biological, two stepchildren; two grown and independent, two still at home. Each has their own personality, passions, and path. Yet, my role remains the same: to love and lead them, no matter their age or stage. This isn’t a job with an expiration date … it’s a lifelong commitment.
Love and leadership can change everything. In a world that often feels short on both, we dads (myself included) have a unique opportunity to make a difference. Whether your own experience with your father was painful, incredible, or somewhere in between, I respectfully challenge us all to embrace love and leadership. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.
Some of us are natural leaders; others prefer to follow. Some love effortlessly, while others have to work at it. Regardless, our children – whether they’re toddlers or adults – look to us for both. So, let’s say the words, walk the walk, and live it out.
Love and lead.
To my own father: Dad, your influence, love, and leadership has been some of the most transformative powers in my life. As a young boy I looked up to you, and to this day I look up to you. I admire your work ethic, I respect your commitment, and I admire your dedication. You are a godly man who’s love and leadership has changed so many lives, mine at the top of the list. I can’t thank you enough. I love you.
I’ll get back to nerdy financial commentary next week but thank you for allowing me to share a heartfelt Father’s Day message today.
Thank you for allowing me to be a part of the story you are writing. Let me know any way I can support you along the way.
Make it a great week ahead.